Got a 90 min call with me?
I’d give you 3 hours!
Hit a roadblock that frustrated you 10pm my time while I chilled in my PJ’s playing SKyrim?
I DID help with a 10 min voicenote!
Got a troublesome team member you need to set firm boundaries with?
I went and coached them too!
Would these things be considered a bad thing?
Not really….and I told myself as much.
After all, helping people is why I was in this to begin with, right?
So I did!
Help them…
Whenever, and wherever at any second I could….
WIthout regard for my own health, wealth and happiness.
Now, lucky for ME (and my clients really) I go through the same coaching I put my clients through and got called out on my shit.
And boy, it’s something else sitting on the receiving end of these calls – I definitely know why you’d avoid them oof
Because it was then, that I was shown how I actually made my clients responsible for my lack of self worth back then – hoping that if I worked JUST Hard enough and proved myself I’m valuable and good enough.
That by constantly DOING things, being there, helping others, ALWAYS pu
tting others first before myself – I was not only making myself ill, I was standing in my own way and didn’t grow and my answer was to keep doing more and more and more.
And that’s something I work on with my clients and help them overcome now! Their overwhelm, constant need for productivity and being people pleasers disguised as ‘being helpful’ is often a reason THEY aren’t growing their income and impacting more people with THEIR Mission.
